Alumni & Parents

The Higdon Center firmly believes in the importance of actively engaged alumni and parents in our students fraternal experience. There is correlation between positive experiences and positive engagement from these groups and the Higdon Center is here to support those positive connections. Please take a moment to review some of the resources provided and consider how you would like to engage.

Parent Information


Welcome Parents!

Fraternities and sororities are groups of men and women who come together to form a personal network of individuals with similar ideas, interests and a mutual respect for one another. They desire to create meaningful experiences in their pursuit of a well-rounded college education. Greek lettered organizations have been a part of the College of Charleston community for over a century.

Sororities and fraternities are established with founding principles that foster:

  • academic achievement
  • student involvement
  • community service
  • and lifelong friendships.

Some of the advantages of fraternity or sorority membership include:

  • A support group to help make the adjustment to college easier.
  • Minimum standards for membership that promote accountability and responsibility.
  • Resources to help students achieve their academic goals.
  • Leadership skills acquired through hands-on experiences and participation.
  • Active participation in meaningful service projects and opportunities to help others.
  • Valuable interaction with alumni and advisors who are professionals that volunteer their time and talent to help guide chapter operations.

The following is a list of suggestions that may ease your student’s transition to fraternity/sorority membership:

  • Be happy and supportive with your student’s choice to join a fraternity or sorority and the organization that he/she chooses.
  • Remember that this is your student’s choice, and he/she should choose the chapter that feels right, regardless of legacies or family history.
  • If you have a question about fraternity or sorority life, go to the source and ask the staff within the Higdon Center. Don’t buy into gossip or hearsay. We want you to have the best information possible. Our staff can be contacted at 843.953.6320.
  • Encourage your student to attend programs sponsored by the Higdon Center and other campus offices.
  • Know the names and phone numbers of the chapter president, new member educator, big brother/big sister and the chapter advisor.
  • Ask for details about the financial aspects of membership. Each chapter governs its finances individually. If you are paying, you deserve to know. Many one-time fees are paid in the first semester, so expect the first semester to be the most expensive.
  • Initiation is an important time for the new members. Be supportive and respectful of your student during this time. New member programs can range from one day to a full semester. However, most programs are six to eight weeks. Initiation dates are public to the new members, so please ask your student when initiation will occur.
  • Talk with your student! Phone calls, e-mails, letters and care packages are always appreciated.
  • Expect to see new T-shirts, photos and other Greek paraphernalia.
  • Encourage your student to be a part of the College community and take advantage of our numerous resources.

FAQs for Parents


Frequently Asked Questions

Alumni & Advisors


Being a member of a Greek organization is not for college days alone.

At the College of Charleston, Greeks make the best alumni for our institution – from the standpoint of volunteerism, relationships with potential donors and financial support to the institution. 

The Higdon Center is committed to developing alumni/ae that will serve as a conduit for innovative programs and events that bring the fraternity and sorority alumni community closer together. This will facilitate a coordinated effort to foster healthy growth in the fraternity and sorority community on campus. A healthy fraternity and sorority community will generate more fraternity and sorority alumni, which will in turn increase our capacity to make a difference at our world-class college.

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Additional Resources


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