Alumni & Parents
The Higdon Center firmly believes in the importance of actively engaged alumni and parents in our students fraternal experience. There is correlation between positive experiences and positive engagement from these groups and the Higdon Center is here to support those positive connections. Please take a moment to review some of the resources provided and consider how you would like to engage.
Parent Information
Welcome Parents!
Fraternities and sororities are groups of men and women who come together to form a personal network of individuals with similar ideas, interests and a mutual respect for one another. They desire to create meaningful experiences in their pursuit of a well-rounded college education. Greek lettered organizations have been a part of the College of Charleston community for over a century.
Sororities and fraternities are established with founding principles that foster:
- academic achievement
- student involvement
- community service
- and lifelong friendships.
Some of the advantages of fraternity or sorority membership include:
- A support group to help make the adjustment to college easier.
- Minimum standards for membership that promote accountability and responsibility.
- Resources to help students achieve their academic goals.
- Leadership skills acquired through hands-on experiences and participation.
- Active participation in meaningful service projects and opportunities to help others.
- Valuable interaction with alumni and advisors who are professionals that volunteer their time and talent to help guide chapter operations.
The following is a list of suggestions that may ease your student’s transition to fraternity/sorority membership:
- Be happy and supportive with your student’s choice to join a fraternity or sorority and the organization that he/she chooses.
- Remember that this is your student’s choice, and he/she should choose the chapter that feels right, regardless of legacies or family history.
- If you have a question about fraternity or sorority life, go to the source and ask the staff within the Higdon Center. Don’t buy into gossip or hearsay. We want you to have the best information possible. Our staff can be contacted at 843.953.6320.
- Encourage your student to attend programs sponsored by the Higdon Center and other campus offices.
- Know the names and phone numbers of the chapter president, new member educator, big brother/big sister and the chapter advisor.
- Ask for details about the financial aspects of membership. Each chapter governs its finances individually. If you are paying, you deserve to know. Many one-time fees are paid in the first semester, so expect the first semester to be the most expensive.
- Initiation is an important time for the new members. Be supportive and respectful of your student during this time. New member programs can range from one day to a full semester. However, most programs are six to eight weeks. Initiation dates are public to the new members, so please ask your student when initiation will occur.
- Talk with your student! Phone calls, e-mails, letters and care packages are always appreciated.
- Expect to see new T-shirts, photos and other Greek paraphernalia.
- Encourage your student to be a part of the College community and take advantage of our numerous resources.
FAQs for Parents
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Why should my student join a Greek lettered organization?
At first glance, the college experience can seem overwhelming. The fraternity and sorority community gives students the chance to have a support network away from home. The individual chapter will become like a family, and friendships will last a lifetime.
By choosing to become a member of a Greek lettered organization, your student will meet people who will grow to be close friends, people who will cheer your student on when he/she is successful and who will support him/her when the going gets tough.
Fraternities and sororities promote the development of close ties between members through living, studying, working and having fun together. Members also meet new people through community service projects, participating in campus events and chapter events.
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How can fraternity & sorority life help my student succeed academically?
Academic success is an important part of college life. One of the central purposes of fraternities and sororities is to promote academic excellence.
Each organization requires members to maintain a minimum grade point average in order to remain an active member of the chapter.
All chapters emphasize the value of academic success and will help their members achieve this success with scholarship programs, study halls, incentive programs and study buddies. Because the fraternity and sorority community puts so much emphasis on scholastics, it usually has a higher cumulative grade point average than the non-affiliated students, and has established the Order of Omega and Rho Lambda Honor Societies to recognize the outstanding members of our fraterntiy and sorority community.
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Are fraternity and sorority students involved on campus?
Greek lettered organizations allow members the opportunity to expand and develop their leadership skills.
Members of the fraternity and sorority community are represented in most campus groups and participate in a variety of campus and community events. As a fraternity or sorority member, your student will have the opportunity to become involved in a variety of organizations outside of his or her chapter including:
- Interfraternity Council.
- National Pan-Hellenic Council.
- Panhellenic Association.
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Do fraternity and sorority members participate in community service?
Every year, fraternity and sorority students give thousands of hours of service to the community. Members donate time to help with a number of campus and local service projects. Fraternity and sorority students also sponsor fundraising activities for charitable organizations.
Each fraternity and sorority chapter has its own national philanthropy, which it supports on an ongoing basis.
Chapters have special events to raise money for their particular projects. Some of the projects that chapters are involved with include raising money for the Medical University of South Carolina, women with breast cancer and victims of domestic violence.
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Does being a member of a Greek organization have benefits after graduation?
With the job market becoming increasingly competitive, a college degree no longer guarantees a successful career. In today's job market, it is not only important what your student knows, but who your student knows.
When someone joins a fraternity or sorority, he/she not only becomes friends with the members of that chapter, but also begins building relationships with the families and friends of those members and alumni from all over the country.
By joining a fraternity or sorority, a person can tap into an entire network of people, from which could possibly come a future employer, a spouse or a lifelong friend.
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Does it cost a lot to be in a fraternity or sorority?
Joining a fraternity or sorority does carry a financial commitment. Each chapter is self-supporting through dues paid by their members.
When students join a Greek lettered organization, they also agree to pay dues and fees while in school to maintain membership. Although chapters may make accommodations for special needs, students should discuss the financial obligations with their parent(s) before deciding to join.
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Does hazing still exist as part of the pledging process?
The College of Charleston, as well as each national fraternity and sorority, has a zero-tolerance policy regarding hazing that is consistent with South Carolina state law.
Hazing includes any activity that subjects members to harassment, ridicule, intimidation, physical exhaustion, abuse or mental distress.
Hazing is contrary to the purposes of the fraternity and sorority community at the College of Charleston. Hazing is not tolerated. If you feel that you or someone you know is participating in inappropriate activities as a result of membership in a fraternity or sorority, you should submit the Hazing Report Form.
Alumni & Advisors
Being a member of a Greek organization is not for college days alone.
At the College of Charleston, Greeks make the best alumni for our institution – from the standpoint of volunteerism, relationships with potential donors and financial support to the institution.
The Higdon Center is committed to developing alumni/ae that will serve as a conduit for innovative programs and events that bring the fraternity and sorority alumni community closer together. This will facilitate a coordinated effort to foster healthy growth in the fraternity and sorority community on campus. A healthy fraternity and sorority community will generate more fraternity and sorority alumni, which will in turn increase our capacity to make a difference at our world-class college.
Get Involved
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Advising
Advisors to undergraduate fraternities and sororities may wear the following hats:
- Counselor
- Rule enforcer
- Teacher
- Cheerleader
- Parent/sibling figure
- Friend
- Resource/expert
- Director
- And so on…
While these individuals wear many of those hats (sometimes simultaneously), being an advisor can be a very challenging, but rewarding experience. Interactions between advisors and students allow them to share in their experiences and resources. It is evident that those Greek lettered organizations that have an involved and dedicated group of advisors succeed far beyond those chapters that are working without the advisory support.
The College of Charleston requires each Greek chapter to have at least one chapter advisor and one on-campus advisor. It is expected that the advisors take an active role in the organization. The relationship and specific role will be determined by the organization and the advisor, however, it is expected that the advisors guide, direct, advise and support the chapter and its leadership throughout their progress.
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Chapter Advisors
The chapter advisor is considered a liaison between the (inter)national organization’s headquarters and the college administration. This person needs to be committed and passionate about the organization, skilled in organizational and leadership development and proficient in their inter/national organization’s policies and their interpretation. It is through committed alumni/ae support that chapters achieve their greatest success.
The College’s expectations of a chapter advisor/advisory team include, but are not limited to, the following:
- Working with the chapter officers to integrate fraternity mission and goals as well as creating a connection with their inter/national organization through attendance at leadership conferences and utilizing available resources.
- Supervising the chapter’s affairs as they relate to the organization, the campus and the community. Maintain visibility in the residential community by regularly visiting the chapter, interacting with members and attending chapter programs and meetings.
- Meeting regularly (at least monthly) with the chapter leadership and being available to meet with members upon request. Ensuring an effective and timely officer transition occurs.
- Serving as a resource person for planning events and programs, resolving issues confronting the group and being involved in the education of new members.
- Educating the chapter about inter/national policies, state and local laws and the chapter code of conduct.
- Working with the scholarship officer to implement a comprehensive scholarship plan and a residential environment that supports academic success.
- Ensuring that individual behavior is addressed through a chapter standards board that empowers members to hold each other accountable for their actions consistent with the values of the organization and university.
- Being involved in any situations that involve allegations of sexual misconduct or other egregious behavior.
- Attending meetings of the chapter advisors when requested by the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life.
- Working in partnership with administration staff, the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life and (inter)national headquarters to foster a positive fraternity experience for the undergraduate members.
- Assisting the chapter officers in developing a membership recruitment and retention plan.
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On-Campus Advisors
The College of Charleston is committed to strengthening scholarship and faculty/staff and student relationships among fraternities and sororities. Nearly all colleges and universities require all student organizations (including fraternities and sororities) to have a faculty or staff advisor. For most campuses, this is interpreted as someone to sign forms and approvals. OCA’s must be active members of the College of Charleston’s employee community. Below is a general outline of the role of the On Campus advisor. This vital position works closely with chapters on their overall scholarship programs.
- The College of Charleston requires all registered student organizations to have an advisor. This must be a full time member of the staff, faculty or administration and is responsible for the following:
- To provide assistance in creating and implementing an academic/scholarship success program for the organization
- To be available to meet with members of the organization which he or she advises at their regular group meetings or at a special meeting called for that purpose.
- To promote a closer relationship between and among students, faculty and staff.
- To provide assistance to students in setting goals and planning activities for the organization.
- To assist students in developing co-curricular interests consistent with the mission of the College of Charleston.
- If the student organization maintains an on-campus account with the College, the advisor must be a signor on the account and must see every transaction that occurs on the account. Budget reports for the account will be sent upon request from the Office of Fraternity and Sorority Life.
- OCA’s are not expected to serve as the chapter advisor nor to serve on the alumni board (if they wish to serve in these positions that would be great but it is not expected).
- OCA’s are not on call nor are they responsible for the social aspects of the chapter.
For more information about becoming a Chapter or On Campus Advisor, please contact the Higdon Center at 843-953-6356.
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One Time Opportunities
We are always in need of alumni to serve as guest speakers at events like Greek Leadership Series programs, council retreats and other educational programs. There may be other ways you can give back as well. Let us know your interests! Our alumni are the single greatest resource for the College of Charleston’s Greek community. Thank you for your loyalty and support. We also encourage alumni looking to give back to the College as a whole to connect with the Alumni Association.
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Finanical Support
It is our hope that we will continue to provide exceptional programs for both our students and alumni, and to do so we would gladly accept any monetary donations from fraternity and sorority alumni. If you choose to contribute please use the College of Charleston Foundation Page and donate to the Greek Leadership Fund (All donations are tax-deductible.)
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